F. H. DALLAM
He came to Henderson in 1852, and engaged in
the practice of law. He was a profound lawyer and exceptionably successful.
I can pay him no higher tribute than be producing what was said of him some
years ago by one who knew him intimately:
"When he chose--as he sometimes did, to the admiration
of his friends--to give wings to his glowing, imaginative powers, his was
ever an eagle's flight, impetuous, rushing and heavenward. A superior judge
of law, his opinions were always held in the highest estimation. A skillful
draughtsman--his declarations, pleas, and other legal papers, were
unsurpassed in power, comprehensiveness, beauty and finish. As an advisor,
he was much sought; and his opinions were distinguished by acumen and sound
judgment, and by a conscientious regard for the interests of his client.
But it was in the social circle that Mr. Dallam exhibited his fine powers
to the best advantage. Well informed upon all topics of general interest;
conversant with the best authors, and singularly discriminative of their
peculiar excellence, learned in the lore of the philosophers, and in the
spirit and text of the poetry 'for which men strive and die, and maidens
love and mourn;' his colloquial powers were of the rarest and best, and
charmed all who came within the magic circle of his influence. A geniality
of temperament which knew no limit to its benign outgivings; a kindliness
of heart which ever sought to palliate the offenses of his friends against
propriety and good taste; a disposition willingly to impart to others the
selected fruits of his fine cultivation and assured judgment; and a
sparkling vivacity of manner which pervaded even his more serious
utterances, secured to him at once the affection, the respect, the
gratitude and the admiration of those who were thrown into familiar
association with him. Of acute sensitiveness, he readily granted to others
that which he would not allow to be withheld from himself--the
consideration which is due to honest and conscientious expression and
action, and the courtesy which dignifies, and is inseparable from true,
gentlemanly address and intercourse. Honest, and of a high sense of honor,
he 'rendered under Caesar the things that were Caeser's,' and scorned to do
aught which would not bear the severest scrutiny and the sternest
criticism."to do
aught which would not bear the severest scrutiny and the sternest
criticism."
Mr. Dallam left a widow and two daughters, Miss Camilla
Barbour, who married, June 15th, 1867, Judge A. T. Dudley, and Miss
Florence, who married April 7th, 1869 Mr. Samuel J. Alves. Henry Dallam, an
only son, is living in Texas, unmarried.
The History of Henderson County, Kentucky by Starling 1887 page 792-93;